As part of a book club, we discuss books and share tips to assist struggling readers. If you’re on Instagram, check out the #ourreadingstory hashtag. This week, our topic was: “How to Cultivate the Joy of Reading.” Rather than delve into raising readers or cover a myriad of reading-related subjects, I decided to focus on reluctant readers.
On social media, we often come across Pinterest-worthy pictures of children engrossed in reading near a bookshelf. Some people, like me, appreciate the sight and are in awe of the bookshelf in the picture. However, others may feel overwhelmed by the image and may have a reluctant reader at home.
Don’t let social media stress you. I’ll share some tips to help your kid. Every kid loves to read. They just haven’t found the right book yet.
FIND THE CAUSE
First, try to understand why the child isn’t interested in reading. See what they get frustrated about. Then, figure out what kind of books they like. Try different kinds of books. If they like learning new things, get them non-fiction books. For example, Nathan likes made-up stories. So I get him picture books.
BE A READER YOURSELF
You’ve probably heard the phrase, “Monkey see, monkey do.” This concept applies to our children as well. When our children see us reading a book, they are more likely to follow in our footsteps. For instance, I would sneak in a few pages of reading, and Nathan would notice and realize I was reading my book, just like he reads his picture books.
DEDICATE TIME FOR READING
Set aside a special time to read a book with your child, just like you have a time for play. We read to our child before bed and sometimes in the middle of the day. Whenever you have a chance, read to your child. It will become a habit for them. No matter how old they are, keep reading to them.
HAVE BOOKS EVERYWHERE
When I say “have books everywhere,” I don’t mean you need Pinterest-worthy bookshelves. Instead, create small book nooks around your home. We have a small shelf in our bedroom, and two in our playroom. I also place book baskets in every room. Book baskets are helpful and make it easier for children to pick books and read independently.
ENCOURAGE BOOKISH PLAY
Not all kids love reading books, but some may enjoy creating art inspired by the characters they read about or engaging in activities like scavenger hunts or acting out plays based on the stories. As long as the child is actively engaged with the book and turning the pages, these methods can be effective in fostering a love for reading.
VISIT THE LIBRARY OR GET A BOOK SUBSCRIPTION
If you’re having trouble finding books for your child, consider visiting a library and selecting books based on their interests. If you don’t have access to a library, you can also subscribe to a monthly book subscription service, which will send you a curated selection of age-appropriate books.
Don’t give up. All of it takes some patience to get going.
Do you have a reluctant reader at home? How do you spark the joy of reading to them?
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